Doing What’s Needed


When an out-of-order death enters a person’s life, everything changes. Having the right resources available is incredibly valuable in making confident choices while you navigate your grief journey. Learn more about what is available by clicking the links listed below.


It's Okay To Laugh

(Crying Is Cool Too)

You Are The Mother

Of All Mothers 

It's OK That You're


Terrible, Thanks

For Asking 



Founded in the summer of 2013, Harlynn’s Heart is a funded project of Dakota Medical Foundation. They exist to serve families experiencing perinatal or neonatal loss by assisting them in their immediate, short-term, and long-term needs. Bereavement birth companion, hospital assistance, NICU support, planning, presenting valuable resources, and continued methods of support are only a few of the many services Harlynn’s Heart offers to families in their time of grieving and need. 

Harlynn’s Heart also co-facilitates a Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support Group with Hospice of the Red River Valley, meeting the 4th Tuesday of every month from 6:30 - 8:00 pm. Meetings take place at the Hospice of the Red River Valley building in Fargo (use the west entrance).


When a child dies, at any age, the family suffers intense pain and may feel hopeless and isolated. The Compassionate Friends provides highly personal comfort, hope, and support to every family experiencing the death of a son or a daughter, a brother or a sister, or a grandchild, and helps others better assist the grieving family.


Still Standing Magazine

An online magazine/website with blog posts and other resources for loss families. The goal of the online community is to break the silence surrounding child loss and infertility.

Molly Bears

A non-profit that creates weighted teddy bears the exact weight of your child. Orders are wait listed and can only be made by a parent of the child.

The Milky Mudra

The Milky Mudra is based on a concept of creating a gesture of remembrance, using your very own breast milk (or other special inclusions), preserving it and setting it in resin. Each piece is created with love and attention to detail to help you remember your loved one.